tell me why im waiting for so long he doesnt give a fuck about me

Then suddenly, he started opening up to me.

Situations like that drive me nuts, so I eventually called him out on their bullsh*t.Įach confrontation led to an explosive argument, but a few weeks later, he would text me like nothing ever happened.Įventually, we got to a point where we both accepted our relationship for what it was: A friends with benefits arrangement that was no longer healthy. Or tell me we’d meet up for drinks the following weekend, then never follow up. For example, he’d tell me he’d text me the next day, then not do it. Over time, I grew frustrated with all the unkept promises he made to me. We would call or text every now and then and sometimes meet up at a bar or catch a Rockets game together, but it was always as friends. I had no intention of rushing his healing process. Additionally, he had just gotten out of a 10-year relationship. I didn’t want to force them into a relationship with me because it’s important to respect people’s boundaries. He slowly started to remove himself from my life, and when I asked why, he said, 'I like you, I'm just not ready,' which is understandable.

I had never felt anything like that before, and it scared me, but I was all in.Īfter about four months of seeing each other, I finally asked, 'What are we?' And as I'm sure you can already guess, it didn’t go over well. We had amazing chemistry, and were constantly joking and laughing all the time. It never occurred to me to look for signs he was leading me on, because our connection felt like it was on the right track.įor all intents and purposes, we were in a 'situationship,' also known as an undefined relationship. We were constantly spending time together, and they even introduced me to their friends and family. We vibed in a way that I haven't vibed with anyone before. We met at a bar one night, and initially, things were great. I've been seeing someone named J* on and off for a little over a year. I'm having relationship drama with this guy who I really connect with, but he's unsure whether or not he's ready to commit. My name is Nicole,* and I'm 26 from Houston.

Tell me why im waiting for so long he doesnt give a fuck about me